Are men really capable of being faithful?
I'm not sure any of you can actually do it, forever, one woman? Does that sentence terrify you?
Not like they'd ever answer that honestly. Has anyone noticed that the only time men "apologize" for their affairs, and "make changes" is when they get caught. No man would never in a million years just confess because it's the right thing to do. OK the right thing to do would be to not have an affair in the first place. I have an ex that still won't admit that he ever cheated on me, even though I have it on good authority that he did, and he casually admits to cheating on his current girlfriend more than once. It doesn't even matter anymore, we live in different states, have different lives and barely talk, but he still won't admit it. Classic male allergy to honesty. As someone who values honesty above ALL else in all of my relationships, I find this maddening.
Everyone is attracted to people other than their partner, but how do you rationalize crossing that line? To me, this is the cruelest thing you can do to someone who cares about you. A lot of people will say that their boyfriend, husband, girlfriend, (whatever) would never cheat on them. Hell, people tell me all the time that FSU would never do that. And while I trust him above all other men, he is human and I am starting to wonder if any man can go the distance, happily, with one woman, for a lifetime.
Maybe it's biologically impossible. Also, if you are in a committed relationship with a traveling salesman of any kind, you are screwed and so are the other women he is sleeping with. Dump him.
ps. this is in no way a reflection of how I feel about FSU, 2 1/2 years in and I still think he's perfect. No, seriously. I will keep thinking that until I find evidence otherwise.